Author: Michelle

  • Carers: Caring for Yourself

    Carers: Caring for Yourself

    Taking care of someone with an anxiety disorder can be extremely testing at times, especially if you have never suffered yourself, but you may be surprised how much of a major role you can play in helping the person recover.  Firstly it is important to accept that they are not “putting it on” or “making up” the symptoms.  What they are experiencing is genuine, frightening and often life-destroying.

    Being a carer of someone with an anxiety disorder can be a lonely job at times, but as a carer you are certainly not alone. Recent statistics show that there are over 6.5 million carers in the UK at the present time.  It may be a comfort to know that by helping and supporting your friend/family member you are aiding recovery.  A little understanding goes a long way.

    Talking to other people in the same boat as yourself can be a comfort Maybe there are local groups in your area that could put you in touch with them?  You could try your local Library, Citizens Advice Bureau, or the local Doctor’s surgery for details.

    Undertaking a carer’s role can put huge pressure on you, it can also cause conflicts or a strain on your relationship with the person you are looking after. This is why it is so important to not only try and understand what the sufferer is experiencing but also take care of your own health and well-being.

    Here are No Panic’s top ten tips for carers:

    • Take time for yourself. You cannot take care of others if you are mentally and physically drained yourself.
    • Learn more about the person you are caring for and their disorder. Our website has lots of useful information. The more you know, the more help you can give.
    • Talk to other carers. It is always comforting to know you are not alone. Join us on our Facebook group and share stories with others going through the same things.
    • Ask for help when and if you need it. You are not a failure or showing weakness by reaching out, we all need a bit of help now and then.
    • Accept help if it is offered. You may want to do everything yourself. You may want to be the carer all the time, but if someone offers then accept gratefully. People offer because they want to help
    • Look after your own wellness. Diet and exercise are important for everyone to stay in good health. Listen to your body and its needs.
    • We all need to shut off and recharge our batteries every day. A good night’s sleep is essential to cope with daily trials.
    • Don’t cut yourself off. Staying in touch with family and friends is very important. If you are not always able to get out then a quick call or even texting is a great way to catch up.
    • Check out your rights. If you have given up your regular work to become a carer, you may be eligible for certain services or funding.
    • Give us a call. Our helpline is open every day of the year from 10-00 am to 10-00 pm. This is not just for people who suffer from anxiety but for you too.  Sometimes you need to talk to someone.

    Continue Reading:  Practical Help for Carers

  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

    Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

    The term Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is now in common use. Unfortunately, many use the term in everyday conversation, without realising that PTSD is often a very serious condition that may require professional, specialist treatment. Thus, the other day I heard someone describing a problem at work with a colleague who was being ‘rather difficult,’ with the person saying: “He’s enough to give you PTSD”.

    PTSD is a relatively new term that describes a condition that has been known for thousands of years. I have come across accounts of what mental health professionals would now call PTSD in writings about the Battle of Marathon in 490 BC. Similarly, PTSD has been called many things, including shell shock, battle fatigue, anxiety reaction, etc. 

    Fortunately, there is very good and reliable information about the condition on the internet. Indeed, Wikipedia has an extensive and well-regarded page. In the UK we are fortunate to have access to information provided by the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) that provides considerable information about various conditions and sets out very helpful information about effective treatments. The link, below, to NICE Guidelines, may be of considerable assistance. 

    https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng116

    As you will see on the web page, the information provided is not just for health care professionals but also people at risk of, or who have, PTSD, their families, carers and the general public. 

    There are probably many members of No Panic who have one form or another of PTSD. They may have developed this as a result of a car accident, a physical or sexual assault, or a range of other frightening events including, major accidents and disasters. 

    Over the years I have seen many patients with this condition, including those involved in major accidents and disasters, those involved or witnessing terrorist atrocities and, from the time of the Falklands War nearly 40 years ago, I have assessed and treated numerous service personnel who have been traumatised in theatres of war. However, more commonly, I have assessed and treated those who have experienced, witnessed, or been confronted with events that have involved threatened death or serious injury or a threat to their physical integrity, that have been involved in accidents on roads or in their workplace. 

    My interest in this condition began by listening to the accounts of my father, Joe, who was wounded and captured in the period leading up to Dunkirk, thereafter spending two years in hospital and two years in a prisoner of war camp – all the time being posted as missing, presumed dead. Those who are interested in hearing more about case studies might follow the link to the book I wrote on PTSD in which I provide information and various case studies.

    Post Traumatic Stress Disorder: Recovery After Accident and Disaster

    There are three core elements of PTSD, i.e:

    • Intrusion;
    • Avoidance;
    • Hyperarousal.

    Intrusion is most commonly experienced in vivid flashbacks that can occur during waking time or by nightmares, which may be directly or indirectly associated with the traumatic event. Sometimes, flashbacks and upsetting memories may be triggered by reading something in a newspaper, seeing something on television or simply taking part in a conversation.

    With regard to avoidance, people with PTSD often have considerable avoidance behaviour, avoiding anything connected with the original trauma and going to extreme lengths to avoid places or people connected with that trauma. Sometimes, people ‘block out’ memories as a way of coping. Alternatively, sometimes people simply detach themselves from others and may appear very distant. Avoidance is often accompanied by blunting of emotions; this leads to an inability to enjoy life, to experience depression and, in the worst cases, maybe generally regarded as someone who has undergone a ‘personality change.’

    With regard to hyperarousal, people with PTSD are often physically very tense, have problems sleeping and are uncharacteristically prone to irritability and outbursts of anger for no apparent reason. One sign that I have seen on many occasions is the so-called ‘startle response.’ This has occurred during an interview when a minor sound outside of my consulting room has made the person ‘jump.’ When this matter is explored, you will find that this sensitivity to light, sound and skin sensations occurs very frequently during ordinary, everyday life. 

    On a positive note, many people who experience even quite severe levels of PTSD will, over time, recover without any particular treatment. This is often a testimony to the person’s resilience and a supportive family and social network, who may listen to the person’s worries and engage them in enjoyable activities. 

    I have often been asked a question about vulnerability to PTSD. While it is true that some people who present with PTSD have an anxiety disorder, on many occasions, following interviews with people who have experienced traumatic events, I have found that a history of anxiety disorder does not necessarily mean that the person will develop PTSD. Most professionals agree that one of the central reasons for developing PTSD stems from those who feel helpless during the traumatic event and feel that they have no control over what is happening.

    If PTSD continues, the good news is that there are available treatments (recommended by NICE) that can be very effective. There are two central methods. The first is a focus on helping the person to cope with memories and consequences of the traumatic event by a variation of Cognitive Behaviour Therapy; Trauma-Focused CBT. The second is Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing (EMDR). This is a simple treatment that helps the patient process memories of the traumatic event; the theory being that PTSD arises when memories are only partially processed. During EMDR the therapist will ask the person to bring to mind memories of the event and, with a process that involves the person following sideways movements of the therapist’s finger, or moving their eyes to a rhythmic sound, the distress associated with memories gradually reduces. Sometimes, EMDR can be effective in just a small number of sessions. EMDR may be combined with more general CBT treatment.

    Medications are only used as a ‘second line’ treatment; there is consensus that tranquillisers and sleeping drugs should be avoided. NICE makes recommendations about the medications that may be used. Medications are often very helpful when there is a poor or only partial response to EMDR or Trauma-Focused CBT.

    In summary, therefore, PTSD is a relatively common condition. However, there is some confusion in the general public because the term has been used widely to describe upset or distress that does not conform to the definitions that I have set out above. The good news is that people with PTSD often recover without any professional treatment and those who have professional treatment are more likely than not, to experience considerable improvement in their condition. 

    I am often asked whether PTSD can be cured. In one sense, this question is meaningless as, by definition, traumatic events are of such significance that one can never forget. However, it is true to say that even those involved in the most horrific circumstances can, in the majority of cases, return to ‘normal life,’ enjoying their families, friends and activities and while, on occasion, they may be upset when thinking or talking about the event, they will tell you that they are now ‘feeling much better.’

    Professor Kevin Gournay CBE.    (President and co-founder of No Panic)

    Professor Kevin Gournay is an Emeritus Professor at the Institute of Psychiatry. He has more than 40 years of experience and is the author of more than 130 articles and books.

    How can No Panic help?
    No Panic specialises in self-help recovery and our services include:
    Providing people with the skills they need to manage their condition and work towards recovery.
    Our aim is to give you all of the necessary advice, tools and support that you will need to recover and carry out this journey. No Panic Recovery Programs

  • How I Learned to Cope with my Anxiety without Alcohol

    I started sneaking alcohol from my parent’s liquor cabinet when I was 14 years old. I did it out of plain curiosity the first time. I have a sister who is 10 years older than me and she always looked like she was having so much fun when she was drinking with her friends. I wanted to know what that felt like.

    It didn’t take long for me to realize that alcohol enhanced my mood and calmed me down. I had suffered from anxiety for a long time, but I was too young to even know what anxiety was. I had moments where I would find myself hiding in the school bathroom having a panic attack while I felt like the world was spinning faster than I could keep up. I was extremely insecure. I would second guess everything I said to others because I was afraid of what they would think of me. These incessant thoughts consumed my everyday life.

    Alcohol took away these feelings. It allowed me to feel peace. I took what worked for me and I ran with it. Years later, I found myself dependent on alcohol to get through the day and cope with my emotions. When I made the decision to put the drink down for good, my anxiety and insecurities were still there. Without another way to manage my emotions, I had to find ways to cope with my anxiety without alcohol.

    Meditation

    Mindful meditation is one of the first things I tried, and it has always proven successful in alleviating my anxiety. I usually rely on a guided meditation because it is easier for me to focus on another voice or other noises if the thoughts in my head are spinning. I begin by taking several deep breaths, allowing my body and mind to relax, then go wherever the meditation takes me. When it is over, I always feel alert, calm, and at peace.

    Writing

    I had always heard about people journaling, but I thought of it as cliche. However, when I tried it, I was surprised at how much I wrote in so little time. Journaling has been found to effectively minimize stress and anxiety. While there are various methods of journaling, I usually just write about my day or whatever is on my mind at the moment. It only takes 5 minutes each night and it helps me organize and work through my anxious thoughts.

    At the end of my journaling, I write down a short gratitude list. Recognizing the things I am grateful for helps put the stressful things in my life into perspective. Gratitude is a key to happiness and a better emotional view of myself.

    Exercise

    Psychologists suggest that as little as 10 minutes of physical exercise can help alleviate anxiety. By the time I chose to stop drinking, I wasn’t in the best physical shape. I started with low impact exercises, like walking and yoga. Eventually, I started going to the gym and starting my day off by taking a jog early in the morning. Regardless of the type of exercise, the physical release I experienced help relieve my anxiety immensely. Exercise began as something I dreaded doing, but it has become an important part of my life. In addition, it’s a lot easier to exercise when you don’t have a hangover!

    To my surprise, after I had abstained from alcohol for a year, anxious feelings come to me much less often than they did before or during drinking. On the rare occasion that it does, I have healthy coping techniques to use rather than taking a drink.

    Cassidy Webb is an avid writer. She writes for JourneyPure and advocates spreading awareness on the disease of addiction. Her passion in life is to help others by sharing her experience, strength, and hope.

  • It’s Volunteers Week!

    1st to 7th June 2019 is Volunteers Week.

    Here at No Panic we have some amazing volunteers and wouldn’t be able to do what we do without them! So we would like to say a huge thank you to all volunteers for their hard work and dedication.

    We have lots of volunteer positions available. We are looking for Helpline volunteers, Shop volunteers, volunteers to help online and with social media, and Committee members.

    So, if you think you’ve got what it takes to join the team, get in touch today by calling 01952 680460 email info@nopanic.org.uk or find out more here.

  • How to Overcome Panic Attacks

    No Panic has been on the radio this week with the actress Samia Longchambon, who plays Maria in Coronation Street.  She was telling her story about suffering from such bad panic attacks she feels she would die. As I listened I thought how brave the three people were who joined her on the radio to discuss their anxiety.

    It is good that there is more and more awareness of mental health issues nowadays. Only by talking and learning how to deal with panic attacks can the boundaries around anxiety  be addressed.  Panic attacks are not a mental illness but are a product of an overload of anxiety and adrenalin.  They are an awful experience to go through at any age but they will not harm you.  Nothing worse will happen to you, we won’t die or faint or anything else we might fear. It is like a false alarm going off.   The feelings we experience are normal for the heightened state the body is in when stressed. 

    Two of the main fears we may feel is not being safe and in control.  When the body is tense it is giving the message that something is wrong.  This gives a signal to the fight and flight response and the release of adrenalin in the body The body is doing what it naturally would do if we were in danger.  But we are not in danger and the feelings will pass like it has in the past. 

     When we are anxious the breathing changes, which contributes to the feelings. When we add on frightening thoughts it becomes a struggle within ourselves.  I thought I would write about what to do when we have a panic attack as it really helped me and many others.

    When we are frightened the body wants to run and get away from the anxious situation.  It makes sense to do this but unfortunately the body isn’t learning how to deal with panic attacks.  Try and drop the shoulders and let go of as much tension as you can.  Learn to do the diaphragm breathing, tell yourself you are safe and let the feelings pass.  There is a free recording of the breathing technique on the web site’s home page.  Practice this regularly so you can do it anywhere and if you apply it early enough it will prevent panic attacks. 

    Use the Progressive Relaxation CD where you tense each muscle group in turn and it teaches the body the difference between being tense and relaxed. These two things are giving you control over the anxiety and are the start of getting better and feeling safe.

    When we experience panic attacks try not to think you won’t ever get over them.  Like me and many others you can overcome anxiety and panic attacks.

    If you would like to find out more, then please get in touch: info@nopanic.org.uk

    Picture courtesy of ITV

  • Celebrating our first DrugStars donation

    We’re excited to announce that we are in receipt of our very first donation of £1992 from the app DrugStars!

    We would like to say a huge thank you to DrugStars and everyone who uses the app to donate their stars to No Panic, you are making a huge difference to the lives of anxiety sufferers and helping us to support those who wouldn’t otherwise be able to access help they need!

    If you want to donate stars to us too then download the DrugStars app today, available for free on the play store and app store!

  • Because I Smile – a song by Phil Muriel

    Today’s blog post is a beautiful song which has been submitted by Phil Muriel.

    “Dedicated to those who smile through the pain — inspired by those who live in fear of being returned to the hell they fled. I interpret for counsellors who help torture survivors who have sought sanctuary in the UK. In spite of the trauma they carry with them, they remain dignified and manage to smile. So do cancer sufferers, the elderly and many others who ‘suffer in silence’ – this song is for them all.

    This is the first song I recorded for my EP, ‘Postcards from the Heart’. So many people hide what they truly feel behind a smile: pain, fear, depression, stress etc. This song is dedicated to all who suffer and yet ‘smile through the pain’. Thanks.”

  • Waterlog – a video by Joe Minihane

    Today’s blog post is a lovely documentary from writer Joe Minihane.

    Waterlog is a short documentary which tells the story of writer Joe Minihane and his battle with anxiety.

    Finding an antidote in the form of wild swimming Joe sets out to retrace the route of environmentalist Roger Deakin’s nature writing classic, Waterlog.

    In a journey that takes him to every corner of the UK he eventually finds relief, not just in the cold waters he swims in, but by being open and honest about his mental health.

  • Managing Panic and Anxiety Attacks

    In my work as a psychotherapist over the past decade I have come into contact with so many people who live with intense experiences of terror, fear, panic and anxiety.

    In this article I’m not talking so much about worrying, feeling tense, nervous or stressed. Not to diminish how difficult those experiences can be to live with , but I feel like they need different approaches.

    I’d like to offer a some simple information  about what’s happening in the brain and how we can directly, impact and alter a panicking brain and consequently a panicking body.

    When we are feeling truly absorbed by fear a series of neurological events takes place. Firstly imagine the brain in three parts. Just to make things super simple, front middle and back.

    Front = higher executive functioning,so all the smart stuff, negotiating, complex meaning making, reflective and critical thinking, decision making, etc etc etc…

    Middle = memory and feelings

    Back = the smoke alarm, responsible for sending and dealing with perceived threat.

    Now of course it’s a lot more complex than that, but for our purposes let’s look at things in this simple way, so we can begin to untangle what’s going on when we are overwhelmed by big and difficult feelings.

    First off, that smoke alarm can be a bit faulty, often from over use, or from one off shorting out of used in an extreme situation. This means it can become either over sensitive or not sensitive at all. Like a real faulty smoke alarm, it either goes off for burnt toast and cigarette smoke or doesn’t go off at all even in a raging fire. I’ll talk about that smoke alarm that doesn’t go off at all in another article.

    For now, we’re looking at the faulty alarm that goes off all the time when we don’t need it to. So there’s the first problem.

    Second problem. When that smoke alarm goes off, it takes a lot of our energy to do so. This means that front part, that clever bit that might be been able to reason and think it’s way out of this overwhelm of feeling is OFF LINE. It either goes down super low, or goes off altogether.

    Let’s just stop for moment and give some thought to what that means for us. If we cant think, choose, reflect and process information, we are lost. Hence that feeling that you are literally consumed by the feelings, panic, distress terror.

    Thirdly. That smoke alarm that now going off like crazy, has a set of protocols it puts in place for dealing with this ‘perceived threat’, and it’s going to begin by flooding your body with a whole load of drugs to help you deal with that perceived threat.

    Drugs like adrenalin and cortisol to name a few. They’re going to get you ready for running or fighting. If those don’t work or don’t seem like they’ll have a positive outcome the brain might choose, freeze, the play dead option, I may talk about the freeze option in another article. For now we’re still with that hyped up over sensitive smoke alarm, the thinking brains switched off or on super low capacity, and we’re flooded with chemicals.

    These chemicals are built to be used. If they aren’t, because the threat is perceived and not real (no lions really chasing us:)), they might make your heart race, perhaps even so much so you feel very real chest pain, your digestive system over active, your mouth dry, your vision swim, your hands sweat. You might feel shaky, sick or even faint, to name just a few of the bodily experiences these chemicals can cause.

    Here’s the key to finding our way out of this state. This process described is one that we call top down. The information came from the brain and flowed down through the nervous system activating a physiological chain of events that will by now, be leaving you in a really bad state that feels truly unmanageable. Really bad!

    So, the key is, we need to reverse that process and send messages from our body up to the brain, to let it know, all is in fact, OK! There are loads of ways to start sending new message from the body to the brain.

    Quick ways include changing how your breathing, moving in time with slow breath, using visualisations, stimulating all the senses, smell, touch, sight, sound – helps switch our frontal lobes (clever brain) back on fast, and really important, how your body is moving!

    Changing how your body is positioned can quickly change your state of mind. Research shows that standing in an open, shoulders back, chest raised, chin up feet straight forward, front of the body pulled up, back body relaxed downwards, elbows away from the ribs, this position can actually lower your stress hormones being produced in the brain, in the moment, and if practiced daily, it can have real lasting affects of how our brain functions.

    It’s great to practice this alongside any breathing technique you’ve found and like! The position your looking for can be found in yoga standing poses like, Tadasana (or Tadasana with hands raised up, elbows at out at right angles at shoulder height, palms face forward and open is also a nice position) as well as if you consider how a super hero stands 😉

    Give movement a chance, if you’re body holds a position of fear on a daily basis that becomes your bodies habit, and that position tells the brain life is scary, so the brain does it’s job and gives you loads of stress hormones.

    Stop that cycle, start your daily practice of moving differently today.

    Jessica Calvo MBACP (Accred) Psychotherapy, Counselling and Supervision

  • Stress in the Workplace

    By Natasha Devon

    I’ve been working in schools, colleges and universities delivering talks and conducting research on mental health for more than a decade. It made sense to me to target adolescents for a number of reasons, not least of which that the average onset age for the most common mental illnesses (depression, anxiety, eating disorders, addiction, psychosis) have their peak onset around the age of fourteen. I was also guaranteed a captive audience. Back when I started this job, such was the taboo around mental ill health that if I’d tried to do a talk in any kind of public forum about three people would have shown up.

    Over recent years, however, I have been hearing more and more regularly from young people who  are having to support parents with mental health difficulties. The most popular question I was being asked in schools changed from ‘how do I support a friend with..?’ to ‘what can I do for my Mum/Dad who has..?’ It became clear to me that I had to find a way to target adults, which is of course a much trickier proposition.

    In 2016 I trained as an instructor for Mental Health First Aid England, an organisation which offers courses in how to support anyone you might know who has mental health difficulties. It occurred to me that if a colleague at work has a nosebleed, or requires an ambulance, we have specific protocol in place and people trained in the procedure to follow – It’s built into our workplace culture. When it comes to mental ill health, however, the opposite tends to happen. Whilst the awareness of the population has been raised, many still carry an overwhelming fear of saying or doing the ‘wrong’ thing. According to the Mental Health Foundation 1 in 6 of us will experience a mental health difficulty in the workplace and, as things stand, that’s likely to leave us feeling isolated and discriminated against.

    At the beginning of this year, I teamed up with Bauer Media, who own brands such as Empire, Heat and Grazia Magazines as well as Kiss, Kerrang and Absolute Radio, to try and explore the extent of the problem. The results of our survey showed that 52% of the population have experienced a mental health challenge, that 86% considered it to be one of the biggest issues facing the country and yet, of those who had to take time off work for mental ill health, up to 50% had lied to their boss and told them it was for a different reason.

    The study told us something crucial – namely that, despite so much hard work being undertaken by charities and campaigners in a bid to challenge stigma, mental illness is still tied up with ideas about ‘professionalism’ and ‘character’. We understand that you can recover from and manage physical health problems, but the same cannot be said for illness of the mind.

    It became clear to me that a fundamental change in social attitudes was necessary and mental health first aid would be a good place to start. Mental Health First Aid courses teach that we all exist somewhere on a spectrum of mental health – putting paid to the notion that this is a topic relevant only relevant to that one in four we endlessly hear about. Furthermore, our position on the mental health spectrum will shift according to our circumstances throughout our lifetime. Just as we might eat healthily and take regular exercise to improve our physical fitness, so we can all improve our mental fitness.

    MHFA also challenges us to reassess the impact of ‘stress’. We tend to think of stress as an inescapable part of life and to adopt a ‘keep calm and carry on’ mentality in relation to it a proud facet of Britishness. Yet in MHFA courses delegates learn that it is objectively stressful events and circumstances which are unavoidable and our consequent feelings of anxiety must be addressed through self-care and lifestyle. There is no shame in taking these steps to safeguard our wellbeing – Just as if we cut our finger and fail to apply antiseptic cream and a plaster the worst case scenario is blood infection and death, so if we leave stress to fester it accumulates and can lead to further mental health difficulties. It therefore makes total sense that evidence shows the earlier a mental health issue is identified the easier it is to treat and manage.

    For all of these reasons, in partnership with Bauer Media and Mental Health First Aid England, I created ‘Where’s Your Head At’, a campaign which calls for an obligation to have mental health first aiders in the workplace to be enshrined into the Health & Safety at Work Act. Just as with ‘regular’ first aiders, mental health first aiders aren’t a substitute for professional medical care. However, just like their physical equivalents, their response has the power to save lives.

    Our petition is being presented to No 10 Downing Street on World Mental Health Day, 10th October 2018. So far, it’s received endorsement from celebrities including Professor Green, Liam Payne, Tom & Giovanna Fletcher, Kem Cetinay and Magan McKenna, as well as being praised by Jeremy Corbyn and Sadiq Khan in the press. Chair of the Labour Campaign for Mental Health Luciana Berger, Lib Dem MP and campaigner Norman Lamb and Conservative MP William Wragg have also pledged to help us make the change in law a reality.

    If you’d like to add your name to our growing army of supporters please visit www.wheresyourheadat.org.