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  • Thought Control

    The power of thought has an extremely strong influence on our lives. It shapes our days and our way of life. This process is usually subconscious but it can be made conscious too. For example; put a smile on and now think of something you love, whether it is a golden beach, a chocolate cake or a favourite film. Keep the smile while you are thinking. Picture and relish that nice thought. How do you feel? Not too stressed I’m sure. Not upset and not worried. That is the power of thought. For those few moments you controlled your thoughts to give you a good feeling. You did that because you can. You have the power to feel like that whenever you want to.

    What can we do to keep control of our thoughts?

    1. Try not to get overtired.
    2. Look around you at all you have. e.g. friends, family, the use of limbs, a roof over your head, food in the cupboard. These are all things that we so often take for granted but there are people that don’t have as much as us. Being grateful is good.
    3. If you start to have negative thoughts, make the choice to stop them. Change what you are doing.

    You have the power within you to do this. Determination and will-power is half the battle.

    Make the decision right now to have a positive day.

  • Emetophobia by Professor Kevin Gournay

    Emetophobia by Professor Kevin Gournay

    I should begin by saying that I am not a fan of using words that have a Greek derivation to describe phobic states. Indeed, some years ago I was attending a quiz night when the topic of fears and phobias came up. Those at my table, recognising my expertise in this area, played a Joker card – i.e. double points in this particular round. My team only answered three out of ten questions correctly because, much to my embarrassment, I did not recognise the Greek terminology! Having said that, I did study Latin at school and had a superficial knowledge of Greek, but this was to no avail and I spent the rest of the evening in deep embarrassment. Therefore, a simple message – tell it as it is – in plain English!

    Vomiting phobia (emetophobia) is not a simple phobia, far from it. It often presents a great challenge for professionals like myself. Having said that, many presentations of vomiting phobia can be managed by self-help methods, the point being that the phobia presents in various degrees of complexity and severity.

    Vomiting phobias basically come in two categories, i.e. the fear of someone else vomiting or the fear of vomiting oneself. More often than not, people present with both fears for reasons that I will explain below.

    If the person has a fear of someone else vomiting but does not worry about vomiting themselves, this phobia is usually rooted in feelings of great disgust and people will avoid various situations where they might come across people who vomit – for example, hospitals or late-night trains. Sometimes this fear is linked to a worry about other people losing control and there may be some reality in the proposition that travelling alone on a tube, late at night, may have some inherent dangers, other than seeing someone being sick. When such phobias present, the first treatment strategy that comes to mind is exposure and one can do this with a graduated process, keeping in mind the principle that one should try to face up to one’s fears in graduated doses of difficulty, i.e. always doing what is difficult but manageable. The principle of difficult, but manageable steps is one that underpins all exposure treatment. While it might be tempting to explore feelings of disgust by some form of discussion or cognitive therapy, the evidence from clinical practice and, indeed, clinical research is that exposure should be the first line of treatment. These days exposure can be easily facilitated by the use of the Internet and there are many still and moving images available and the addition of sound to the moving images adds to the complexity. If one is trying to conquer this fear on one’s own, it is wise to have someone else who is sympathetic to the problem to undertake the initial searching for images. I say this because there are some truly horrendous films on the Internet that I think would be completely unmanageable for many sufferers.

    I will return to the topic of fear of someone else vomiting below.

    With regard to fear of oneself vomiting, this is often linked to obsessive-compulsive disorder and individuals with this particular fear may often call themselves “control freaks” and, thus, want to keep everything around them in order and within their sight and knowledge. Thus, it is not uncommon to see such individuals as very house-proud and having very high standards for themselves and others. However, this is a generalisation: not all afflicted with this particular fear have this personality type.

    The fear of vomiting oneself is underpinned by various features. There may be a fear of losing control, there may be a fear of doing something that leads to disgust among others, or there may be a fear of being humiliated. Sometimes, the fear is that of the unknown. It may be that the prospect of vomiting is sometimes linked with a long past experience of being sick at school and being taunted or told off. More often than not there is no particular reason that one can identify for this fear to arise.

    Those who present to me in my clinical work often have a very wide range of avoidance behaviours and checking rituals. These individuals will see the prospect of being infected by a virus or bacteria that will make them sick in a wide range of situations. Thus, there is a fear that children may bring home a bug from school and, because of this, children may be questioned and cross-questioned when they come home about the presence of any vomiting among their classmates. Sometimes children and/or other family members may be subject to disinfecting when they enter the house and, in the days of hand gels and wipes, the use of these tends to be prolific.

    It goes without saying that patients who present with a fear of vomiting themselves will often have several items in their bags and pockets that can serve to disinfect. I will often observe patients coming and going from my consulting room, trying to leave the room without touching a door handle or, if they do, sometimes using a tissue, or (as in a recent case) wearing gloves throughout the consultation. Individuals with this fear are notorious “sell-by date” checkers and it is not uncommon to hear of complete fridge contents and freezers full of food being discarded because of a fear of contamination. There is often a worry about eating out or buying sandwiches – even from the highest quality establishments. A number of foodstuffs are commonly avoided and there is certainly an aversion to taking holidays in countries where gastrointestinal infections are common.

    I have only here begun to scratch the surface of what one might see in vomiting phobias and I am sure that some readers can think of yet other signs and symptoms. Suffice it to say that, in severe cases, the fear of oneself vomiting may be overwhelming and may cause massive levels of disability to the person and their family.

    As I have noted above, the fears of someone else vomiting and the fears associated with oneself vomiting may often come in combination. Usually, though not always, the fear of someone else vomiting signals the possibility that the person might be the source of infection.

    In the most serious cases, treatment for fears of oneself vomiting may involve many hours of cognitive behaviour therapy. However, many cases can be helped with a reasonable program of self-help and, once more, there is a need to reduce avoidance behaviours and to begin a process of “taking risks.” Thus, I have come across many people who have been able to help themselves by extending their range of eating out, allowing others to do the shopping and not to check sell-by dates, and getting rid of the ubiquitous hand gels and wipes.

    I always make the point that being overly vigilant and going through regular disinfecting routines may eventually make one more vulnerable to infection! Our immune system is a wonderfully protective resource; just think back to the days beforehand gels (or indeed back to the days when a weekly bath was the norm). It is clear that while the “good old days” were perhaps not so good from a health point of view, on the other hand, the nation did not succumb to endemic diarrhoea and vomiting illnesses – unless of course one goes back to the era of typhoid and cholera and before modern sanitation and clean water.

    In this article, I have only touched upon the nature and treatment of this condition. Suffice it to say that recognising that there is a problem and then dealing with the problem in graduated doses of difficulty, must underpin any attempt to overcome the problem. While I have, above, illustrated my account with some of the more severe aspects of the condition, I need to emphasise once more that a majority of people can help themselves to overcome this difficulty. However, like any fear or phobia, this requires facing your fears.

    How can No Panic help?

    No Panic specialises in self-help recovery and our services aim to provide people with the skills they need to manage their condition and work towards recovery.

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  • Rebecca and Michelle’s Mountain Hike for No Panic

    Picture 1 Snowdon Hike

    Why we wanted to fundraise for No Panic

    We both have received support from No Panic in the form of the Facebook group (particularly Sarah who is one of the moderators) and also occasionally the lovely people on the helplines. Although neither of us are fully recovered from our anxiety/panic disorders we have felt that No Panic have been a valuable resource on our ongoing road to recovery. We want to give back to such a deserving cause.

    Why we decided to hike Mount Snowdon

    We decided that we wanted to do something that would be a challenge because anxiety has been a real challenge to us. Since having our anxiety disorders our lives and our family’s lives have been turned upside down. We wanted to show that with hard work and self-belief you can do anything (including recovering from this horrible illness). So after many discussions we decided to climb Snowdon in the winter.

    How we fundraised

    We got all our family, friends and colleagues to sponsor us. We opened up a just giving page and shared this on many Facebook and Twitter pages. We made posters, collection boxes and business cards. We took donation buckets and collection boxes and posters around local shops, pubs, doctors and other business premises in the local area. We also held a craft evening. We all got together and made Christmas decorations which Rebecca then sold at a craft fair.

    Picture 2 Snowdon Hike

    Who joined us?

    After talking to our family and friends and getting them to sponsor us we managed to persuade many of them to join us in our hike. Both of our mothers, our brothers, sisters and family friends joined us. It was a great experience for all of us. There was 13 of us in total.

    Preparation and safety measures

    Picture 3 Snowdon Hike

    We got all participants to fill out medical and next to kin forms. We had an Outdoor activities First aid kit and also took a whistle and foil blankets just in case we had any emergencies. We had a qualified walk leader with us to guide us and ensure our whole team remained safe at all times. He gave us a kit list and told us all what to expect and what we needed to do. Our leader informed the right people to let them know that we would be hiking the mountain on that day we would then inform them once we were all safely down.

    The night before (stay in hostel)

    A few of us decided it was best to stay in the youth hostel at the bottom of the mountain the night before the treck. Our leader Rick was there before us and cooked us all a curry. We had a nice glass of wine a good chat. The bar man was telling us stories about the mountain to try and scare us. We all then went to our dorm and slept in our quiet comfy bunk beds for the night.

    Picture 4 Snowdon Hike

    The day of the hike

    We got up at 6.30am and had a full English breakfast in the café then we got everything prepared for the day. We then met the others participants who didn’t stay at the hostel on the car park where Rick the walk leader talked to us all about what would happen. We started walking at 8.30am there are 6 routes up snowdon we walked up Pyg Track and then came back down Miners Path. Shortly after we ventured out it started to snow. The path we walked along was very rocky and icy. We all had to help each other and take lots of care not to trip or fall. We all managed the first half of the hike successfully. At the point of no return we all had sandwiches and snacks. We were all given the option to go back or carry on to the top. The weather and conditions was very bad but we carried on. When we were about 400 meters from the top a thick fog or cloud came down and surrounded us we couldn’t see where we were walking and it was deadly silent. Rebecca went as white as the snow on the ground and she started to panic. She couldn’t catch her breath, was shaking, felt sick and kept saying she was dying and to leave her there. She was having an anxiety attack. Michelle Stayed behind with Rebecca and two random men approached us as they could see Rebecca was in distress. They gave her some Kendal mint cake to suck on then helped us get to the top. The clouds remained thick. When we reached the top of the mountain the clouds seemed to clear slightly and all of a sudden it was noisy. The winds reached 50 mph, there were lots of seagulls and crows squawking and the temperature was about -10. We were FREEZING but we were all so happy to get to the top. Rebecca soon felt better and then we ventured back down the mountain. The paths down seemed even slippier than they were going up and we all kept falling over. We just had to put one foot in front of the other and hope for the best. We all survived the hike with no major injuries and got back at about 2.30ish so it took us about 6 hours to do the hike. We all then had a hot chocolate in the café at the bottom and drove the 3 hour long journey back home to Staffordshire.

    With hard work, determination, self-motivation and team work we planned the hike and we all safely finished. We thoroughly enjoyed the whole experience and we are so glad that we decided to do it.

    Picture 5 Snowdon Hike

    Outcome

    • We made it to the top of Mount Snowdon which was an achievement for all of us.
    • We have raised awareness of mental illness and promoted No panic.
    • We have raised a total of £819.11 including gift aid for No Panic so far.
    • It was a great source of confidence building.
    • We would recommend everyone has a go at fundraising we had found it so enjoyable and it feels great when you finish.
  • What is General Anxiety Disorder?

    What is General Anxiety Disorder?

    General Anxiety Disorder or, G.A.D, makes the sufferer feel anxious regardless of the situation they are in. Symptoms of G.A.D. may vary from one sufferer to another (see Anxiety Symptoms Explained) However, we would remind you that G.A.D., like all anxiety disorders, has nothing to do with insanity.

    G.A.D. sufferers often worry excessively about family health, safety and the future. In many cases, depression can form part of G.A.D. either as part of the cause or as a result of the frustration felt about G.A.D. It is therefore essential that people check things out with their doctor to make sure they get the correct type of help.

    G.A.D. sufferers usually manage to face fearful or dreaded situations or places even though they often find it very difficult. However, if a pattern of anxiety starts to occur, e.g. avoidance of places, or excessive checking, then it may be the onset of another type of anxiety disorder, such as a Phobia or Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.  No Panic can help you deal with these illnesses.

    The Fear Response

    All anxiety disorders, for example, phobias are centered around our natural reactions to fear.  People who suffer from Phobias are really afraid of the feelings of fear that accompany their feared situation.  Nearly all phobias are related around situations, places, object or animals which cannot possibly harm them.

    Fear is a natural response in all of us.  It keeps us safe by making sure that most of the time we are not in dangerous situations.  However sometimes when we are not thinking about what we are doing, we do things that are dangerous, e.g. stepping off the pavement without looking and almost getting run over.  The vehicle, as it is getting close, will probably sound its horn and our ‘fear response’ will get us out of danger.  The shock to our system, when something like this happens, is enormous and very unpleasant.  This may cause us to have some unpleasant symptoms, sweating, shaking, trembling, feeling nauseous, and our heart pounds.  Without our fear response, we would not have reacted but stood where we were in the road and the consequence of that is not hard to imagine.

    Fear is a skill, which we have learned as we grow up.  How many times do we see children run onto a busy road?  They have not learned the fear response.

    It can be seen clearly that fear in the right place is essential to our well-being.  Without it, I doubt if most of us would survive very long.  Having established that we need it to survive, what has this to do with phobias or anxiety disorders?  The answer is that, over a long period of time, sufferers have learned too much fear and misinterpret situations as if they are a real danger.   Our body will always respond to the tension in our body and the way we think with the primitive reaction of the ‘fight or flight’ response.

    How can No Panic help?
    No Panic specialises in self-help recovery and our services include:
    Providing people with the skills they need to manage their condition and work towards recovery.
    Our aim is to give you all of the necessary advice, tools and support that you will need to recover and carry out this journey. No Panic Recovery Programs

     

  • Agoraphobia

    Agoraphobia

    A phobia is an obsessive fear of an object or situation that exists over a long period of time. People with phobias have no rational explanation for their fears, and often there is no discernible cause. People with phobias worry about imagined events that are unlikely to happen in reality or are only a remote possibility. Phobias can cause a range of symptoms from mild anxiety to debilitating symptoms similar to those of panic disorders.

    What is Agoraphobia?

    Agoraphobia is not, as many people believe, just about open spaces. It is really a fear of being in any place or situation where the sufferer does not feel safe or where they feel trapped.  This may mean that they avoid these places and are driven by an uncontrollable urge to escape to a place of safety, in most places cases his/her own home.

    Taking all these factors into account, it is not surprising that sufferers of agoraphobia do not venture very far from home. Agoraphobics tend to be afraid of losing control in certain situations and being negatively judged by others.

    Some Agoraphobics find they can get further from their place of safety if accompanied by a trusted friend.  Others prefer being on their own so that they don’t inconvenience anyone if they feel the need to escape.

    It is not surprising that sufferers try to avoid these awful sensations caused by the rise in adrenaline related to their stress and fear. Regrettably, by doing so they are reinforcing their fears.

    Common situations avoided by agoraphobics
    • Travelling
    • Shopping, any situation where queuing is involved
    • Keeping appointments, hospital dentist, hairdresser, etc.
    • Visiting friends or inviting friends to visit
    • Attending family celebrations
    • Attending school, lectures or employment
    Understanding the Fear Factor

    All phobias are centre around our natural reactions to fear.  Phobias sufferers are really afraid of the feelings of fear that accompany their feared situation.  Nearly all phobias are centered round around situations, places, object or animals which cannot possibly harm them.

    Fear is a natural response in all of us.  It keeps us safe by making sure that most of the time we are not in dangerous situations.  However sometimes when we are not thinking about what we are doing, we do things that are dangerous, e.g. stepping off the pavement without looking and almost getting run over.  The vehicle, as it is getting close, will probably sound its horn and our ‘fear response’ will get us out of danger.  The shock to our system, when something like this happens, is enormous and very unpleasant.  This may cause us to have some unpleasant symptoms, sweating, shaking, trembling, feeling nauseous, and our heart pounds.  Without our fear response, we would not have reacted but stood where we were on the road and the consequence of that is not hard to imagine.

    Fear is a skill, which we have learned as we grow up.  How many times do we see children run onto a busy road?  They have not learned the fear response.

    It can be seen clearly that fear in the right place is essential to our well-being.  Without it, I doubt if most of us would survive very long.  Having established that we need to survive, what has this to do with phobias?  The answer is that, over a long period of time, sufferers have learned too much fear so they can be so frightened when there is nothing to be afraid of.

    How can No Panic help?
    No Panic specialises in self-help recovery and our services include:
    Providing people with the skills they need to manage their condition and work towards recovery.
    Our aim is to give you all of the necessary advice, tools and support that you will need to recover and carry out this journey. No Panic Recovery Programs

  • Tranquilliser Withdrawal

    Tranquilliser Withdrawal

    At No Panic, we can’t give advice on medication because we are not qualified to do so, but we can help people who are coming off tranquillisers.

    Why come off tranquillisers?

    Tranquilisers come under a very wide range of brand names, too many to list here. It is not unknown for people to be taking tablets unaware that they are in fact Tranquillisers. If you are unsure as to whether you are taking Tranquillisers or not check them out with your doctor or chemist. Some people have just stopped taking their tablets and suffered horrendous withdrawal problems. Instead of finding out what medication they were on, they have reverted to taking the tablets again. This could have been avoided if in fact they had known they were taking Tranquillisers and a slow reduction, under supervision could have commenced. There is no doubt that the more you take the more you need to achieve the same effect and it becomes a very slippery slope down which to slide. The sooner you can start to reduce the better as the longer you have been taking them the harder it is to give them up. After a time, usually a couple of months, Tranquillisers have little or no effect and people keep taking them because the body cries out for them in the same way as cigarettes affect people.

    It is important to remember that Tranquillisers do have a role to play, in the short term, to help people through a crisis or an unexpected trauma but, long term; they do not provide a cure for anxiety disorders. This can only come from learning to deal with the anxiety which the Tranquillisers have masked. There are many ways to deal with anxiety, without the use of medication.

    Coming off Tranquillisers can be hard, but it is worth it.

    Our first piece of advice is to check things out with your G.P. before you do anything and discuss with him/her what you want to do.

    You have now discussed your decision with your doctor and he/she has agreed that you should try and reduce your intake of Tranquillisers with a view to coming off them completely. Your doctor will have advised you on the rate at which you should reduce your intake. The professional opinion would suggest that to give them up completely takes approximately one month for every year that you have been taking them. However, this figure is only a rough guide and will vary from one person to another depending on things like dosage levels, weight, physical size, etc. Don’t judge your reduction rate by anyone else because we are all different.

    Tranquillisers work by suppressing the central nervous system. This means that when you start to reduce your intake of Tranquillisers your nervous system will become more active until such time as your body gets back to normal. So, your suppressed emotions are going to come to the fore and will have to be dealt with. This is why if you try to give them all up straight away your nerves are going to be really “raw” and it may become too much to handle. However, if you are only on a very small amount or have only been on them for a very short time (less than 2 months) giving them up all at once may not create too much of a problem. Some people tell us that they have given up Tranquillisers with no problems at all irrespective of how long they were on them. As we said before, everyone is different.

    Because each person is different, it is not possible to describe the withdrawal symptoms that each individual may experience. It is important to remember that when you plan your reduction program you should not try to reduce the dosage by big “chunks”. Small steps are best and will help to minimize withdrawal symptoms. Once you start a reduction do not go back up during “rough” times as it will make things harder in the long run.

    Our second piece of advice is don’t go “Cold Turkey”.

    Don’t stop taking Tranquillisers all at once. You are ready now to start reducing your intake of Tranquillizers. There are no hard and fast rules as to what the rate should be. We are all different. It really is a matter of trial and error and will depend on your own intake level, the length of time you have been taking them and what type and strength of tranquillisers they are. Don’t rush it; you haven’t got a deadline to meet.

    Once you have found the reduction level that you can cope with, stick to it. If you are going through a period of higher stress than normal, during your reduction program, take longer before making the next reduction.

    Obviously, this will slow down the overall program but it is better to do this than “pop” extra tablets. One very important thing to do is to practice proper deep muscular relaxation. This can be done using one of our audio exercises or by using our written program.

    If you obtain a CD elsewhere, please make sure it is deep muscle relaxation and not relaxing music or about lying on a beach in some foreign hotspot. Don’t just do your relaxation when the going gets tough. The more frequently you do it the sooner it will become an automatic reflex. Prevention is better than cure. Make it part of your life even when you are better as it will help you to stop being anxious and tense in the future.

    Another important point to remember is to stick to regular eating habits. It is a well-established fact that if a person’s blood sugar levels fluctuate he/she will be much more prone to anxiety and panic. You should try and eat the same amount at the same times every day. Cut out things like sugary snacks and caffeine. You do not need any extra stimulants like these, as the chances are you are already stimulated enough, by the anxiety of reducing your tranquillisers intake.

    Ladies should also bear in mind that they will experience blood sugar level fluctuations during their monthly cycle and so are much more prone to anxiety at this time of the month.

    Our third piece of advice is to keep a written record of your progress.

    As you reduce your intake, your body will become more able to deal with the normal day-to-day stresses of life. Through a “diary of events” you will be able to monitor your progress and feed on your success. I think you will agree that it is difficult to remember how you got through each day and what tips you used. This is where a diary will help and it shows you all that you have achieved. Success breeds success.

    Our fourth piece of advice is that you should talk to others who have given up Tranquillisers.

    One of the biggest problems with coming off Tranquillisers is the loneliness you may feel. Try and find out if there is a support group in your area – your doctor or local health centre may be able to help you. Perhaps consider putting your name in our “Contact Book” (Members only). Also, don’t forget that the No Panic help-line is there for you to talk to, 10 am to 10 pm every day of the week 365 days of the year.  

    Our final piece of advice is to stick with it.

    The benefits are worth the effort. “No Pain – No Gain”. You may well go through some challenging times. Sometimes you may be short-tempered and irritable so warn your family and friends. We feel sure that if you explain, to them, what you are trying to do, they will give you some much-needed and appreciated support.

    The rate at which a person can reduce their intake of Tranquillisers usually increases as the daily intake decreases. So, the road you are about to travel on may not be as long as you first thought. Don’t sit around thinking how bad you feel, it will only make it harder. Keep yourself occupied with something that isn’t too stressful.

    The feelings you will experience cannot harm you and eventually, they will reduce and subside. You may also experience some physical pain but this is only due to the tension in your muscles. It is not a sign of some major physical illness.

    Colin Hammond’s Story of Coming Off Tranquillisers

     

    Colin was the founder of No Panic and won the MBE for his hard work for running the charity and how this contributed to mental health awareness. Here is his own story on how he reduced and stopped taking tranquillisers.

    I have written down my experience, with regard to giving up Tranquillisers, in the hope that it will be of help and encouragement to others who are, or want to do, the same.

    I was on minor Tranquillisers (Valium and Ativan) for approximately 15 years and my intake peaked at about 15 milligrams of Ativan per day although, I “popped” extra ones whenever I felt a little bit tense or was under any pressure, no matter how small. I also suffered from agoraphobia and was about to start therapy with a cognitive/behaviour therapist and before beginning my agoraphobia recovery program he insisted, quite rightly, that I reduce my intake of Tranquillisers.

    My initial target was to reduce my intake, agreed at 14 milligrams per day, by ½ milligram per month thus coming down to 13½ milligrams by the end of month one. However, towards the end, I was able to reduce by ½ a milligram per fortnight. Overall the program took about 18 months to complete. I know some people have done it more quickly and others more slowly but I did as I was instructed and it worked for me.

    The side-effects were somewhat frightening and one of these developed into a fear of going to sleep whilst it was dark. Our curtains would be closed and the lights switched on before it got dark so that I could not see it getting dark. My wife would sit with me until I fell asleep. This put enormous pressure on her and I shall be forever grateful for her support and dedication.

    I saw strange things crawling up the walls, sitting in a corner shaking, crying and thinking I was going insane or dying. I also became terrified of being in a room on my own and even when I went to the bathroom I had to have the door slightly open. I hasten to add that this period did not last many weeks and somehow I got through it with the help of my family, keeping occupied with jigsaws and with my relaxation audiocassette playing, in the background, all day long. I got through some audiocassettes I can tell, you as I kept on wearing them out.

    It was absolute hell for the first three months but gradually my mind began to get its act together and things slowly but surely improved until, by the end of the 18 months, I was off Tranquillisers completely. Life really was worth living again. I began to experience the nicer things in life without the blurred effects of the Tranquillisers. The nerves around my eyes became properly sensitive and I had to have the strength of my glasses reduced. I was aware that Tranquillisers could put on weight and as I came off them my weight reduced back to what it had been before I was put on them. My taste buds returned to normal and I was once again able to enjoy my food.

    All in all, it was a very frightening ordeal and experience but well worth it because the alternative was to take more and more Tranquillisers as my body became immune to the set dosage and needed extra to have any effect or just to cope with day-to-day living.

    To anyone thinking of trying to give up Tranquillisers my message is “Go for it” because the rewards are so great but, if you are going to go for it please make it a planned program. Don’t try and do it alone.

    How can No Panic help?
    No Panic specialises in self-help recovery and our services include:
    Providing people with the skills they need to manage their condition and work towards recovery.
    Our aim is to give you all of the necessary advice, tools and support that you will need to recover and carry out this journey. No Panic Recovery Programs

    Find out more……….

    Further reading from the NHS Overview-Antidepressants  
    Treatment – Generalised anxiety disorder in adults

    Stopping antidepressants-Royal College of Psychiatrists

     

  • Obsessive / Compulsive Disorder (OCD) in Young People

    Obsessive / Compulsive Disorder (OCD) in Young People

    O.C.D. manifests itself in three main categories:

    • Obsessive thoughts with compulsive physical rituals
    • Obsessive thoughts on their own
    • Physical rituals on their own.

    Young people may feel confused and even embarrassed about their feelings or the fear and keep it to themselves. Sometimes performing certain rituals is the only relief they get.

    As all youths are different, so are the signs. Here are some examples; (this list is not exhaustive)

    • Problems at school
    • Trouble making decisions
    • Lack of motivation
    • Anxiety, sadness or irritability
    • Difficulty in everyday tasks
    • An extreme obsession with dirt or germs
    • Repeated doubts
    • Excessive attention to detail
    • Too much worrying about something bad occurring
    • Aggressiveness

    Fear is a skill that we learn as we grow up. It is essential, at the ‘right’ time and keeps us safe. It stops us from jumping out of a plane without a parachute or putting our hand into an open fire. Fear is there to protect you.

    A young child on the other hand, who has not yet learnt fear, will run out onto a busy road after a runaway ball oblivious to any danger.

    Having established that we need fear to survive, what has this got to do with O.C.D.? The answer is quite simply, that over a long period of time, sufferers have learnt too much “fear” and so they become afraid when there is actually nothing to be afraid of.  After all, if the fears were truly a danger, wouldn’t all children experience the same symptoms?

    How can No Panic help you?

    No Panic specialises in self-help recovery and our services include providing people with the skills they need to manage their condition and work towards recovery. Our aim is to give you all of the necessary advice, tools and support that you will need to recover and carry out this journey.

    Why not visit the Youth Hub which is aimed purposely for youths? Or give our Youth Helpline a call on 0330 606 1174 (open between 3pm and 6pm Monday to Friday and 6pm and 8pm Thursday and Saturday). Our volunteers that work on these youth services are by law all DBS checked.

    Maybe you would like to become a Youth Member of the charity? We do have to charge a minimum membership fee of  £5 a year to cover costs. Youth Membership

  • Anxieties and Phobias in Children

    Anxieties and Phobias in Children

    A certain amount of anxiety is completely normal. Examples might be: starting a new school, moving home, parents separating, etc. It is only when the anxiety starts to affect a child’s everyday life that it becomes a problem. It is at this stage that it is wise to visit your doctor and get a specialised opinion if needs be a referral.

    Childhood Phobias

    A childhood phobia is an exaggerated, intense fear often characterised by a preoccupation with a particular object, surroundings, or situation that can quite often, lead to avoidance. Fear is a natural part of growing up, it helps children act with caution to stay safe. It is only when some kind of traumatic event or situation triggers panic and the child then attaches the terrifying symptoms they are experiencing with their surroundings, situation, or object around them that a phobia might develop. Children are all different, as are the phobias they may live with. They will vary in intensity and duration.

    Symptoms of Anxiety in Children and Youths
    • Difficulty to concentrate
    • Upset tummy or a general feeling of unwellness.
    • Refusing food or being ‘picky’
    • Problems sleeping or waking in the night/nightmares
    • Moodiness / temper tantrums
    • Excessive worrying
    • Being generally negative
    • Shying away from company
    • Upset or crying more than normal
    • Toilet troubles
    Effects on parents

    The effects on parents can be very distressing because it is so difficult for a youngster to explain how they are feeling or what they are experiencing.  Very often the child might not even be able to put into words what they are going through.  Which can be terribly frustrating for both sides. 

    Do Anxiety Disorders Fade Away Naturally with Time?

    It is fair to say that many children will grow out of their fears and worries. However, this is not always the case. If you are worried then it is a good idea to ask for help.

    Where to Seek Help
    1. Your doctor.
    2. Teacher or headmaster/headmistress.
    3. School nurse.
    4. Local education authority (ask for the child psychology dept.)
    5. Charities like No Panic
    6. Local family health services authority.
       

    How can No Panic help you?

    No Panic’s Youth One-to-One Mentoring Recovery Programme is a 6 week, one hour per week telephone course with a No Panic Mentor. We use cognitive behavioural therapy to develop an understanding of the relationship between thoughts, feelings, actions and physiology. It also explores interventions that youths can make in relation to changing their way of thinking and behaviour towards fear by using desensitisation techniques. The programme also focuses on goal setting. We encourage youths to look at all aspects of their life and to focus on the key goals that will improve their wellness. We coach on how through simple goal setting and regular self-appraisal, individuals can take personal responsibility and regain control of their lives. Find out more……

  • Hospital and other related Phobias

    Hospital and other related Phobias

    The beginning of a phobia usually follows periods of stress and often starts after a final trauma. “The last straw, which breaks the camel’s back” or after a first panic attack which appears to come out of the blue. In the early stages of a phobia, sufferers feel frightened when in a particular place or situation, without knowing exactly why. Whenever they go into a particular place or situation they experience an overwhelming feeling of impending disaster and feel a compulsive urge to escape from it. Sufferers do not know why they are afraid but the feelings of fear that they experience are very real.

    A phobia is actually a fear of fear because sufferers are not really frightened of any particular place or situation but are frightened of the feelings of terror that they get when they are in those places or situations. This is known as the “what if” factor and consequently sufferers avoid more and more situations and places just in case “what if” occurs. Needless to say, it never does nor ever will happen but sufferers cannot bring themselves to take that risk.

    Hospital Phobia

    Hospital Phobia is a very common fear. The great majority of people experience a certain level of anxiety about hospitals that might revolve around the fear of pain, injury, blood and being under the control of strangers whilst separated from the family, etc. However, when the fear becomes irrational to the point where necessary treatment for an illness might be avoided, then the phobia has to be dealt with. This phobia may also revolve around things associated with hospitals such as white coats, nurse’s uniforms, or hospital smells. 

    Dental Phobia

    Dental Phobia often occurs on its own but can be associated with a fear of blood, injury, or maybe part of agoraphobia i.e. agoraphobia being the fear of being trapped or anywhere you feel unsafe thus, a dentist’s chair could fall into the ‘trapped’ situation.  Read more here

    Blood Phobia

    Many people have a natural tendency to feel uncomfortable at the sight of blood. A mild fear of blood is fairly common in both children and adults. Approximately one to two million people suffers from this, making the fear of blood one of the most common phobias.  Also there is a feeling of fear that the person might faint.   This also involves a fear of being injured or of medical procedures such as blood tests or injections.

    Injection Phobia

    The problems regarding injection phobia usually centered on the sight of the needle itself or contamination from a previously used needle.

    Anticipatory anxiety

    People worry and are anxious before appointments or facing their feared object or situation and often think the worst is going to happen, cancelling appointments or avoiding the situation they fear.

    How can No Panic help?
    No Panic specialises in self-help recovery and our services include:
    Providing people with the skills they need to manage their condition and work towards recovery.
    Our aim is to give you all of the necessary advice, tools and support that you will need to recover and carry out this journey. No Panic Recovery Programs

    Become a member of No Panic and join one of our Recovery Groups or One to One Mentoring services with a trained leader and work on Anxiety Management and Cognitive Behaviour Therapy to overcome your phobia. 

  • Keith’s Story – Panic Attacks

    I was 9 years old and on holiday with my parents and my sister at East Runton on the North Norfolk coast. We were taking an early morning walk to Cromer, all of a sudden I felt the need to run and run combined with a feeling that I was going to die, I now know that I had experienced my first panic attack.

    This panic attack was the first of many that blighted my life throughout my school years until I was 19.

    I was fortunate to have a very good soprano voice and passed an examination to become a chorister in Peterborough Cathedral Choir. I soon became Head Chorister and Soloist. To this day I do not know how I managed for whilst I was in the choir I never had a Panic Attack, my voice broke when I was 15. I went on to take my O levels and passed 9. I then joined the upper 6th form and studied for 2 years for my A levels.  There were countless occasions when I had a panic attack during a class and I had to excuse myself to go and hide in the toilets until the panic subsided. Despite these interruptions I passed 2 of the 4 A levels that I sat and on leaving school I took on a full time job as a trainee Pharmacist whilst continuing my studies at a Regional College. By now the frequency of my panic attacks had considerably subsided.

    I soon became bored with my job at the chemist and applied for a job as a Production Controller, I was successful and stayed in the job for 5 years.  Soon this became the pattern, I would get bored and I would apply for a more senior position in another company. My panic attacks had by now almost  disappeared but were replaced by bouts of depression.

    I got married in 1966 and 3 years later we had been blessed with 2 children, a boy and a girl. My life became a pattern of changing jobs getting bored and occasional bouts of depression.

    I now skip to 2006 when my world fell apart.

    My wife and I started arguing and I was going through a period of aggressive behaviour towards her, she finally left me and went to live with my daughter.

    I made friends with an Asian taxi driver and soon I was taking loans out to support him and his family. I was made redundant from my job and existed by borrowing more and more money.

    To cut a long story short, my family arranged to have me sectioned under the mental health act. I remained in hospital for 3 months during which time I was diagnosed with having Bipolar affective disorder.

    My wife and I divorced and I now live in a small 2 bed bungalow very close to my family. My wife and I remain friends and my 2 children and 5 grandchildren visit regularly.

    I am taking a regime of drugs to keep me stable and lead a very happy and independent life.